Hi. I completely understand the frustration. It’s tough when you don’t fit into the “swipe culture” that dominates most apps. That’s why I started using Sequel. It’s a dating app specifically for people over 50. They really get that we’ve been through a lot – long marriages, raising kids – and we’re looking for something deeper. They have tools to filter for what actually matters to us. You should really visit the site to see if it feels right for you. It’s been a breath of fresh air for me.