Been there—when my daughter turned 14 and got her phone, it was all good at first. Then she started hiding stuff, deleting chats, acting secretive. I didn’t wanna jump to conclusions, but I needed to understand what was going on. I looked into mSpy too and had the same doubts. Eventually found this review that breaks it down without the usual hype: mSpy Review . Helped me decide if it was the right fit for our situation. Might help you too.