Haha. You work all day at your job, make enough money to hire a maid, and leave her at home with the kids; then you ask why she sleeps all day, does nothing, etc. I think she should find something to do instead of getting mad because it’s all your fault too-for example, I and my wife, from the very beginning of our relationship. When we were not thinking about marriage, we lived together and worked together then. She works and earns some income, and so do I. We shared responsibilities and were always like a team; no one resented it. Nothing changed even when we got close to marriage and decided to have a gatlinburg wedding chapel. Even after that beautiful wedding, we still share responsibilities, yet we have a son we raise together while still making a good living. The problem is that you work very much, and she does not work at all, and even if she starts working now, you still can not give much time to the children and their upbringing. And you can’t because your job takes up too much time. It’s a confusing situation.
